Bullying in Business: Why You’re Being Targeted and How to Shine Through

Oh, darling, let’s talk about something no one wants to admit is happening but everyone is whispering about behind closed doors—bullying in business. You know, those moments when you’re strutting through life with confidence, your best Louboutins clicking against the marble floors, and suddenly, someone tries to knock you off your high heels. I’ve been there, sweetie. I’ve felt the sting of jealousy, the cold shoulder in the boardroom, and the subtle yet sharp digs from people who just can’t stand to see a woman like me thrive. Let’s dive into why you’re being targeted and, more importantly, how you can turn this adversity into your personal catwalk to success.

First, let’s address the elephant in the room: why on earth are you being bullied? Darling, it’s simple—because you’re fabulous.

In the world of business, where everyone’s trying to make a name for themselves, anyone who stands out becomes a target. When you’re confidently striding ahead, others might feel left behind. They see your success, your innovative ideas, and your unapologetic style, and they’re threatened. Instead of celebrating your achievements, they plot ways to bring you down. But let me tell you, their insecurities are not your problem.

Bullies in business often target those who are different, innovative, or simply better at what they do. If you’re making waves, they’ll try to sink your ship. They’ll whisper about you at meetings, exclude you from important conversations, and, in some cases, even try to sabotage your work. Why? Because your brilliance makes them feel inadequate. They don’t want to admit that you’re shining so brightly because it makes their own dullness more apparent.

London Fashion Week Bullies

Take my experience as an example. When I started MenStyleFashion in 2012, I didn’t know I was about to stir up a hornet’s nest. I was just doing what I do best—setting trends and pushing boundaries. I strutted into London Fashion Week, armed with nothing but my passion and my fierce sense of style, ready to take the world by storm. And that’s exactly what I did. But instead of being met with open arms, I found myself blocked, shunned, and even physically pushed around by security. Why? Because I was different. Because I was daring to be myself in a world that wasn’t ready for it.

Now, don’t get me wrong—I’m not telling you this to garner sympathy.

I’m telling you this because I want you to understand that when you’re targeted by bullies in business, it’s often because you’re on the right track.

If you weren’t making an impact, they wouldn’t bother. Their attempts to undermine you are nothing more than a backhanded compliment. So wear that as a badge of honor, darling, and keep strutting.

But how do you deal with these bullies? Well, first and foremost, don’t let them dim your sparkle. They might try to make you feel small, but remember, the only reason they’re trying is that they see you as a giant. Maintain your confidence, and don’t give them the satisfaction of seeing you falter. Keep doing what you do best—being fabulous.

Support System

Second, surround yourself with a support system. Find your tribe—those who uplift you, who celebrate your victories, and who stand by you when the going gets tough. These are the people who will remind you of your worth when the bullies try to make you forget. In my case, I found strength in my readers, in the people who believed in my vision, and in those who saw through the smoke and mirrors the bullies tried to throw up around me.

And let’s not forget the importance of self-care. When you’re being targeted, it’s easy to get caught up in the negativity. But darling, you deserve better. Take time for yourself—whether it’s a luxurious spa day, a shopping spree, or simply curling up with a glass of champagne and a good book. Remember, you’re worth it.

It’s also important to call out the behavior when it happens. Bullying thrives in silence. If you let it slide, it will continue. Stand your ground and let the bullies know that you won’t be pushed around. You don’t have to be confrontational, but you do have to be firm. Let them know that their behavior is unacceptable and that you won’t tolerate it.

My lawyer was a valuable support system when we sent a letter to the British Fashion Council.

Under Armour May 2018

Experience Into Opportunity

And finally, turn your experience into an opportunity. Use it as fuel to drive you forward, to push harder, and to achieve even more. The best revenge, darling, is success. Every time they try to knock you down, get back up, and rise even higher. Show them that you’re unstoppable.

Bullying in business is, unfortunately, all too common. But it doesn’t have to be the end of your story. In fact, it can be just the beginning. It’s your chance to prove to the world—and to yourself—just how resilient, powerful, and fabulous you really are.

So next time someone tries to dim your light, smile, adjust your crown, and keep on shining. You’re not just surviving—you’re thriving. And there’s nothing they can do to stop you. Let the haters hate, darling. You’ve got empires to build.

Let your journey inspire others who are facing the same challenges. Speak up, share your story, and be the voice that others need to hear.

In doing so, you’ll not only help yourself, but you’ll also empower others to stand up to their own bullies.

Remember, darling, you’re not just a target—you’re a trailblazer. And while the road may be rocky, the view from the top is absolutely worth it. Keep strutting, keep shining, and never let anyone dull your sparkle. The world needs your light, and no bully in business can ever take that away from you.

So go ahead, darling—live your best life, embrace your opulent lifestyle, and show the world that nothing can keep a fabulous woman like you down. After all, you’re not just in the business of surviving—you’re in the business of thriving. And that, my dear, is the best kind of business to be in.